One of my favorite travel quotes that I always keep with me
is the famous words of Mark Twain "Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry,
and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts.
Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by
vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one’s lifetime. “
There is another travel truth he forgets to mention however, it goes ...
no matter how many guidebooks you read, google topics you search,
questions you ask your well-traveled BLOOM Africa deputy director brother or
preconceived notions (either conscious or unconscious) you pack with you, there
will always be travel surprises. And really, aren't the surprises and the
unexpected what makes travel so special?
Ok, Twain probably wouldn’t say that but it is something that I believe.
Throughout the trip, I kept a list of all the surprises I was lucky enough to
experience and learn from during my week in Lesotho and South Africa as a BLOOM
Volunteer 2014 trip member. Here are some of my favorites:
The braai.
The first stop of our trip was at BLOOM founder Andrew Steele's host family, the
Monama’s , home for a barbecue or as they say in South Africa, a
braai. After more than 20 hours of
travel, I appreciated the time and care they put in to introduce us to South
African cuisine and honored by the way they welcomed us, in true barbecue
fashion, as family.
The time we spent that first afternoon together sharing about our backgrounds,
learning from the six university students the family so generously provides a
home for (who were absolutely remarkable, by the way, in both their dedication
to learning and future aspirations), and getting to know each other set the
tone for opening our hearts and minds to the experiences ahead of us.
Lumela!
I practiced and practiced but still Sesotho words left my mouth as jumbled
noises. To my surprise, no matter how jumbled my hello "
lumela" (pronounced ‘du-may-la’) came
out I was greeted and welcomed in return graciously. I will forever be humbled
by and remember the warm welcomes, smiles, and thumbs up “sharps” the Basotho
people gave me.
Tour guides.
Our tour guides came in various and surprising forms. The passion and love for
their culture of all our spontaneous tour guides made every step we took
together precious and impactful.
From children grabbing our hands and disregarding their bare
feet to lead us along the rocky hilltop path of Roma to see dinosaur footprints
to leadership from the Thaba Bosiu Youth Sports Development Centre dropping their
plans to walk us through Lesotho history on Thaba Bosiu's mountaintops. Our
quiet morning with Lerato, the chief’s daughter and manager of the Ramabanta
Trading Post Guest Lodge, spent patiently answering questions, sharing
traditions and guiding us through her beautiful village and Maicy, Malefa, and
Bokang, the endearing members of Team Lesotho, who embedded themselves as an integral
part of the trip for 3 days.
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Atop Thaba Bosiu |
And of course, our
outstanding driver, Klaas, who carefully led (and tolerated) us for the
entirety of the trip.
To each of our tour guides, I cannot thank you enough for
your time and allowing us to become so intimately engaged in your country. Meeting and building relationships with each of
you was hands down the highlight of my time in Lesotho and South Africa.
Fat cakes.
Fat cakes are like a mix between the best bread you've ever eaten combined with
the happiest funnel cake you've ever enjoyed; all for the price of a pack of
gum. I can't say what I learned from fat cakes, but I can say if you travel to
Lesotho for the fat cakes and just the fat cakes, you won't leave disappointed.
Fences.
As we drove throughout South Africa and especially in Johannesburg, I was
surprised and shocked by the tall fences and barbed wired that enclosed every
home and business. It was a constant and eerie reminder of South Africa's
Apartheid past and the barriers that we as people and communities put up to
keep each other out. It was also a reminder of the continued work required to
fulfill Mandela's dream of a rainbow nation, both in South Africa and here at
home.
Lesotho’s beauty.
Yes, I saw pictures. Yes, I heard stories. Yes, I watched videos and read
descriptions but there was nothing I could have done to prepare for the
breathtaking beauty of Lesotho and its people.
I am happy that pictures, words and videos can’t capture it and that all
future visitors will also be surprised by the power of nature’s beauty and how
much of it is consolidated within Lesotho’s borders.
The big five.
Our last days of the trip were spent at Kruger National Park, where we found
elephants, rhinos and buffalo. Our safari didn't spot any of the big L's -
lions or leopards - but at that point we were so filled with love, who cares?
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Giraffe at Kruger Park |
For me, the real big five of the trip was Liz, Laura, Sarah,
Brigid and Adam, my fellow Voluntours, for joining the trip with such enthusiasm.
Whether we were stuck in a ditch on a remote game reserve dirt road, providing
shoulders for our exhausted bodies to lean on or listening as we shared the
immense emotions we were feeling – I am so glad I had the opportunity to share
each and every moment with you.
Through all the surprises, the greatest lesson I learned came to me as no
surprise at all: No matter where you are in the world, as humans, we are all
the same. Kaofela Rea Tsoana.
Yes, cultures differ and landscapes change. Language barriers
exist and fences might separate us but at the core, a children’s laughter, a
smile, the human spirit, unites us as one.
Thank you, thank you, thank you Lesotho and South Africa for
all of your surprises. And thank you
BLOOM Africa for taking me on this adventure.
-Destinee
Destinee Thomas lives
in Cincinnati, Ohio and is the sister of BLOOM Deputy Director, William Thomas. She joined us on the Voluntour and wrote this
reflection after her experience.